I’ve spent the past decade looking forward to retiring and have finally managed it, just to realise that I’ve been mis-sold a dream. My wife spends a lot of time annoyed that I’m not doing the things she asks of me quickly enough. It might be making the sandwiches, it might be changing a lightbulb, but whatever it is, it’s not enough.
The nagging is relentless. I’m spending most of my time planning how to get away from her: I bought a dog just so I can take it on long walks for a bit of peace.
What should I do? I’m 62 and am genuinely considering returning to full-time work. Our son lives overseas and we have a grandchild who we both love, though we’re not involved in their day-to-day life.
Please help!
Yours, Nagged and Disappointed
