Amber feared having sex with other women had ruined the best thing in her life, but Todd says exploring together has ultimately strengthened their partnership
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The first time we had sex with a couple, I didn’t anticipate how destabilising it would feel
I became friends with Amber in the summer of 2021, when she was still married. One night, we talked until sunrise and I found myself opening up in a way I never had before.
When we eventually became a couple in 2023, she was the most satisfying sexual partner I’d ever had, and she says the same. That level of communication, trust and respect doesn’t come naturally to me, but Amber makes it possible.
