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How do you do it? Share the story of your sex life, anonymously

I would tell him about my hook-ups, including a threesome I’d had

Luke and I started as a one-night stand that was so drunken he fell off the bed. That was at university three and a half years ago; last month we got married.

We’re both Catholic, and he was a couple of years older, deeper in his faith and about to graduate when we met, so nothing came of it. We stayed friends, and I would tell him about my hook-ups, including a threesome I’d had, hoping it would make me seem interesting and available, but it actually put him off.