Sol and João had a whirlwind romance and now have a baby on the way – which has changed their sexual connection for better and worse …
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João has been turned on by the changes pregnancy has brought so far
When I first met João, I thought he was quiet and a bit weird; he thought I was crazy and intense. But at a party last July, when I was back home in Portugal for a few months, I felt a carnal urge to go home with him. We spent the next two days in a bubble having wild sex, and before the summer was up I was pregnant with his child. I was living in Mexico at the time, so if I hadn’t gotten pregnant, I don’t know if we would have survived the long distance.
I realised I was in love with João the day after we got together. It took him a little longer, but I remember seeing it in his face when it clicked. I’d thought he was sweet and innocent, unlike the alphas I’d dated before. Then I found out he’d slept with six people the month before we got together, including my friend. I’m not usually a jealous person, and maybe it’s the hormones, but with João I feel possessive.
