When they lived in different countries, sex was spontaneous for Rupert and Eva, but now they cohabit they experiment more
How do you do it? Share the story of your sex life, anonymously
We’ve been trying the ‘sex first’ rule when you go out on a date, because you don’t really feel like sex after dinner and a glass of wine
Eva and I have been together for four years, but we lived in different countries for two of those years, seeing each other every other weekend. When you only have 72 hours to play with, you make it count. We had a lot of really intense and good sex.
When you’re long-distance, sex happens way more naturally. But when you’re living together you have to actively create the space for it. These days we put time in the diary to have sex. It doesn’t have to lead to anything, but it makes space for intimacy.
