Anastasia and Ricky don’t have as much sex as they did at the start of their relationship, but when they do, they really do it

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There was an occasion when we had sex eight times in one day – we still call it our dirty weekend

Ricky and I have been together for 12 years and married for three. I still think about the first time we had sex – it was incredible. I remember thinking: how is this our first time? Because in my experience first times had always been a bit awkward.

It was so instantly fun and pleasurable, and felt very safe straight away. Ricky seemed so confident, and I thought: this guy must really know what he’s doing. It was only later that I found out he hadn’t slept with many people at all.