Claudine and John both found a new lease of life on dating apps – and now put time aside to do things properly

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With John there’s never any pressure, unlike in my old relationship

About five years ago I came out of a relationship of more than 30 years and really didn’t expect to meet anybody else. I tried internet dating, but felt like a dinosaur. It was so confusing – people would just say “Hi” and then not contact you for a week.

John kept popping up, and when we finally met, about two years ago, I thought, “Oh my God, he’s lovely. There was a real spark.”