Over the past two decades, as an academic advisor, I’ve worked with thousands of middle school, high school and college students. I’ve seen what separates those who struggle from those who thrive. It’s not an IQ score, GPA, or even college acceptances to prestigious universities.
The real predictor? Executive functioning skills, a set of cognitive skills that help us concentrate, organize, and manage emotions. When you learn these skills early on, you’ll be better at handling responsibilities and forming meaningful connections.
Prioritizing grades, test scores, and college admissions as the main measures of success often undermines young people’s futures and strains parent-child relationships. But when you provide kids with structure and support, they can thrive beyond school.
Here are five ways to start.
Many students struggle with managing assignments, tracking deadlines, and organizing materials. This can cause unnecessary stress and overwhelm.
