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Photo by James Maclennan /PostmediaWhen Monica Spoletini tells people she was born on Sept. 11, 2001, “Nine times out of 10 I get a look and … nine times out of 10 the second question is ‘on the year? On 2001?’Enjoy the latest local, national and international news.Exclusive articles by Conrad Black, Barbara Kay and others. Plus, special edition NP Platformed and First Reading newsletters and virtual events.Unlimited online access to National Post.National Post ePaper, an electronic replica of the print edition to view on any device, share and comment on.Daily puzzles including the New York Times Crossword.Support local journalism.Enjoy the latest local, national and international news.Exclusive articles by Conrad Black, Barbara Kay and others. 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All told, the attacks claimed the lives of 2,977 people, including 24 Canadians.On that same day, as many as 13,238 people were born in the United States. It’s not known exactly how many Canadians also took their first breath Sept. 11, 2011, but Statistics Canada says average daily births in September in that period numbered 1,067.Get a dash of perspective along with the trending news of the day in a very readable format.By signing up you consent to receive the above newsletter from Postmedia Network Inc.A welcome email is on its way. If you don't see it, please check your junk folder.The next issue of NP Posted will soon be in your inbox.We encountered an issue signing you up. Please try againAmong those Canadians were Monica and her twin brother, born in Chestermere, Alta. Both will turn 25 on Sept. 11. Spoletini now works as a hairdresser in Edmonton, where her family moved when she was 12. (Her brother declined an interview.)Neither twin has yet visited the 9/11 memorial in New York City; however, they were acquainted with the events of 9/11 from a young age, because their father read them articles about it, says Monica Spoletini.“(He) wanted to educate us a little bit (about) why everyone knows our birthday so much and why it’s so recognized,” Spoletini says.One of her most vivid memories is of an old article that her parents framed on the wall, featuring her family. “I would say maybe (we were) eight or nine years old, and we could really understand why” it was so significant.Christopher Rutkowski was born in Oshawa, Ont. on Sept. 11, 2001.He says some of his friends believe he is a reincarnated 9/11 victim. “I was born about six hours before the first plane hit. And I have a birthmark on the right side of my face.” His friends theorize that he was initially a financier working in the towers. “I didn’t make it (out alive) — and then, ‘real Christopher’ was born.”Rutkowski has visited the memorial at the site of the World Trade Centre three times, the most recent visit in August.“I never realized the gravity of my birthday until the first time my dad took me to New York when I was 10 years old,” he says. He also visited on his 15th birthday. Chris Rutkowski, at right, visited Fire Station 65 in New York City when he was 10. Beside him is his sister, Keira Rutkowski, and at left, a member of the FDNY (Fire Department of New York). Photo by Bob Rutkowski /PostmediaWith his father, he went to the Ground Zero museum, which he recalls displayed “steel columns and pillars and escalators (from the site)… and people’s stories and phone recordings.”Rutkowski, who calls himself a “big reader,” says he has spent years expanding his home library dedicated to 9/11 to properly commemorate the event.The Spoletini twins, who had planned to visit the site some years ago, were delayed when COVID struck. Now that they lead independent lives, coordination is a bit of challenge, Monica Spoletini admits, adding that “it definitely is something that the two of us want to do together.”The challenge of being born on 9/11 has been difficult for some.For instance, “My family pretends it isn’t a thing. My birthday, I mean,” one person wrote on Reddit. “I was born in NYC, actually between the time the first and second towers were hit. My parents were pretty scarred (sic) by it so we just pretend I don’t have a birthday.”Another posted: “My best friend was born on the date. She gets a lot of sympathy aww’s and, “Oh, honey” comments. She does joke that our high school has an assembly for her birthday every year though so … ”“My daughter was born on 9/11/2001 a few hours before the 1st plane hit. First few birthdays were rough for the family and we didn’t celebrate day of but by now we do. I think it makes her feel kind of special being born that day. But she shows respect and knows the significance of the tragedy,” wrote one mom. Chris Rutkowski visited the National September 11 Memorial & Museum, at the former World Trade Center complex in Lower Manhattan, in August 2026. Photo by Chris Rutkowski /PostmediaFor his part, Rutkowski believes in balancing both aspects of the date — taking joy at being born, yet honouring the victims of the tragedy: “It’s a double-edged sword in a sense.”Spoletini feels the sadness too. But she also believes in a purpose: “I was raised religious, so normally… my parents would say: ‘there was a reason God brought you into the world on that day.’ I also believe in God, but I also do believe in the universe as well.“I do think, you know, the universe or God, or whoever’s outside of us, brought us here on that day too. To… teach us.”Both have major plans for their birthdays.For the Spoletinis, it is the time for a family reunion, and, says Monica, “I’m planning … to realize that I’m actually 25 years old and that my brain is fully developed and that I’m grown up.”Rutkowski, on his third visit to the site last month, stopped in at Fire Engine Company No. 65, which was among the first to respond to the disaster. Rutkowski met New York firefighters at the station during one of his earlier visits too.He is also training to run a 5K obstacle course to honour the victims of 9/11 and demonstrate resilience: “(T)his will be my first year doing it.”And he concludes: “If things are going bad or I’m having a bad day, you know, people have had a lot worse days or the bad doesn’t last forever or there’s always going to be some sort of good in something bad that happens.“And so, it’s taught me to be patient and full of gratitude.” This photo, taken when Chris Rutkowski first visited Firehouse 65 in 2011 on his 10th birthday, shows the door from fire truck 65. It was one of the first to arrive on scene of the 9/11 attacks. The truck was destroyed when Tower One collapsed, and this single remaining piece was found eight blocks away. Photo by Chris Rutkowski /PostmediaOur website is the place for the latest breaking news, exclusive scoops, longreads and provocative commentary. 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