Since November 2022, generative artificial intelligence (AI) has been rewriting billions of emails, student assignments, reports, and break-up text messages. Alongside these mundane uses, we’ve seen a proliferation of chatbots as AI “companions”.

Users can design and clothe (or unclothe) their very own AI friend, often for a fee. These social chatbots provide “happy conversations” and a seemingly perfect relationship at the cost of the mutual vulnerability and genuine sense of belonging we gain from bonds with other humans.

Proponents argue that for those experiencing social disconnection, chatbots are infinitely available, supportive companions who don’t judge them. And there’s some evidence chatbots can alleviate symptoms of loneliness, chronic disconnection, and thwarted belonging.

Australia’s eSafety Commissioner acknowledges this:

AI companions are always available – which can be appealing for those young people who struggle to build face-to-face relationships.