Software architecture debates have a problem that most other engineering disciplines don't: the alternative was never built.
When a bridge fails, the failure is physical, attributable, and measurable against every other bridge that didn't. The engineering decisions that caused it can be isolated, traced, and corrected — not just in theory, but in the next bridge, because the material itself produces feedback that no amount of professional opinion can override. Steel deflects. Concrete cracks. Physics doesn't care what the architect believed.
Software produces no equivalent feedback. A system built around the wrong abstractions compiles, runs, ships, and passes its tests just as readily as one built around the right ones. A bug introduced by a misaligned domain model looks identical, from the outside, to a bug introduced by a typo. A feature that took three times longer than it should have, because the structure made it harder than the business logic warranted, produces no artifact that distinguishes it from a feature that was simply difficult. The cost is real. The cause is invisible.
This is the unfalsifiability problem, and it runs deeper than "we can't measure everything." It means that when a system becomes expensive to change, the diagnosis almost always lands on the wrong variable. The domain is complex. The requirements changed. The previous team was careless. Almost never: the structure was wrong, and the structure was wrong because nobody ever built the other version of it to compare against. That version doesn't exist, it never will, and every architectural argument in the industry is conducted in its absence.
