I moved from Canada to California in my 40s. It meant giving up almost everything, but I did it for love.

After years of long-distance romance, I upended my life and gave up my dream home to move from Canada to California.

Janine Canillas

When I got the keys to my Montreal condo overlooking the Lachine Canal in August 2022, it felt like I had arrived. My new place had heated floors, marble counters, and even a rooftop pool with skyline views.Still, after years of working hard to save up for my dream home and isolating during the COVID-19 pandemic, my parents and friends nudged me back into the world.I had become overly attached to routines and the comfort of my condo: evening walks with my dog, the same coffee order, the same canal view. Reluctantly, I booked a trip to California.The plan was simple: escape winter for a few weeks, write by the ocean, and return home inspired. Instead, I fell in love.On my getaway, I found a whirlwind romance that pushed me toward California

I found myself becoming attached to Venice Beach and a particular person I'd met there.

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