Permit me to share the following research by Harvard University:

“Harvard University Reveals The Secret To Raising Successful Kids”

Harvard University has just established that giving your kids a better life or making them successful. You know what the greatest predictors have said. Harvard University conducted a 75-year study on whether your child is born to be successful. Harvard tracked children well into their age to determine whether it is grades or being born to be successful. Children who are given chores become successful and become responsible in the future. Making them involved will make them successful and really help develop hardness and give them a sense of responsibility. Give them responsibility. I have to work hard; I have to do this, no matter who your parents are. Let them earn what you give them. Give them the life you have. Now the thinking is backwards because I am successful; I want my kids to be successful.

If you truly love your kids, instill in them by giving them less. If you give them more, you are actually setting them up for failure in the future. Otherwise you spoil your children. But statistics now show that they are going to be a failure in the long run.”