Dear Bel,
I have no idea whether you can help or advise but I am writing anyway because I so want to get this off my chest. My darling husband has gone through a radical prostatectomy which has saved his life. He is now in remission. As a matter of fact, I am too, after being treated for non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma. It was a relief to know this condition is treatable, if not curative.
Since my husband’s operation intimacy is not possible as he doesn’t have any sexual desire any more. He has been offered pumps, injections, and other things – but none of all that is appealing to him – and honestly, me neither.
The thing is, he has been my one and only partner in life. I was always raised as a ‘good girl’ – and so that was my way of being. But he had several sexual encounters before our marriage - and one since.
Now we come to my question to you. I am absolutely smitten with a local chap who is single. When we meet briefly, it was a shared kiss on cheeks. That’s it. But I have never experienced a feeling like this, ever. He says the same.
