The trouble with just 'pushing through' is that eventual breaking points are inevitable.

We often talk about South African resilience as if it’s a superpower. We wear it like a badge of honour, surviving everything from economic strain and high crime rates to the daily anxieties of modern life.

But if we are honest with ourselves, a lot of what we call resilience isn't actually healthy coping; it is just endurance under pressure.

We keep moving outward while carrying a heavy load of chronic stress, anxiety, and impending burnout on the inside.

The trouble with just "pushing through" is that eventual breaking points are inevitable.