Democracy Dies in DarknessLetter writer provides free child care to struggling sister, who in return “has taken issue with every disciplinary technique I have.”May 16, 2026 at 12:00 a.m. EDTToday at 12:00 a.m. EDT(Illustration by Nick Galifianakis for The Washington Post)Dear Carolyn: My sister’s husband is deployed. She has two young children and was struggling with daily life as a single mom, plus my family has tons of extra space in our house, so I invited her and her kids to come and live with us until her husband is home.