If you’re single and putting yourself out there, there are several green flags to look for in the people you date.

Consistency is key, says Sabrina Romanoff, a New York-based psychologist and relationship expert for the Hily dating app.

“Almost anyone can put up that facade of being the perfect partner for the first month of dating,” she says. But someone who’s really worth your time will continue to show their interest long after you’ve met. Taking accountability for their shortcomings and mistakes is another green flag.

Similarly, there are red flags to pay attention. Here’s what Romanoff recommends looking out for.

When you’re just starting to date someone, you want to feel a slow and steady stream of attention from them that keeps going, says Romanoff.