As Andy Burnham vows to overhaul social care, our readers shared the raw reality of caring for a loved one, from the exhausting grind of professional care work to a devastating account of watching a wife decline, day after day, in a care home

Carers tell of their struggles to get loved ones the support they need, and the emotional and financial toll caring takes on their own lives

Andy Burnham, whose father has Alzheimer’s, has promised to reform social care as, on Wednesday, he said he recognised millions face unfairness with the current system