Many leaders believe that diverse teams naturally produce better ideas and decisions. But difference creates value only when leaders can navigate the friction that accompanies different perspectives. Four common leadership traps—certainty, inconsistency between words and actions, emotional reactivity, and self-justification—can quietly erode trust, collaboration, and performance. The authors explain why these patterns emerge and how they prevent teams from realizing the benefits of difference. They then offer six practical leadership actions to counter them: cultivate self-awareness, return to respect during conflict, communicate with candor, seek the full story before drawing conclusions, foster shared ownership, and consistently reinforce these behaviors through action. Leaders who develop these habits can transform disagreement from a source of tension into a catalyst for stronger relationships, better decisions, and sustained organizational performance.