Psychology says the more you criticize someone, the less likely they are to change

Psychologists often find that lasting change is more likely when people feel that the decision to change is their own. While criticism may draw attention to a problem, it seldom creates the emotional environment needed for meaningful growth. Research suggests that understanding, empathy, validation and a sense of psychological safety are often far more powerful catalysts for positive change.

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