I thought I was in perimenopause. Then I found out I was pregnant

Home / LifestyleVarsha AnjaliMultimedia Journalist - Lifestyle & Viva·NZ Herald·12 Aug, 2026 11:00 PM8 mins to read‌ Jodie and Jae Starling with their children. Jodie and Jae Starling with their children.Warning: This article discusses miscarriage and baby lossThey swiped right seven years ago. Now they’re a fully-fledged family – including a surprise baby.

Jodie and Jae Starling met on Tinder in Porirua in 2019. Three years later, they were married. Jodie, 45, who also has a 15-year-old son named

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I thought I was in perimenopause. Then I found out I was pregnant

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