Stephanie Whitelock said “it is a privilege” to be able to look after her son, Gabe, who has cerebral palsy, autism and a learning disability – although it has meant her finances have taken a large hit.

The mother of three lives in Reigate, Surrey, with her husband, James, 48, and their children, Ned, 13, Gabe, 10, and Primrose, four.

Before Gabe was born, Stephanie worked part-time in student services at a sixth-form college, often looking after students who were vulnerable and needed extra support.

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After Gabe was born, the regular appointments, therapy and support he would require became clear. Yet, as Stephanie worked during term-time at the college, she did not get annual leave in the form many employees recognise.