The author's kids do chores before their fun summer activities.
Courtesy of Bethaney Phillips
In the weeks before school was out, my two kids, now 9 and 7, started talking about their summers. It was a commentary about sleeping in, watching constant TV, and spending their days playing video games. None of this is our normal, and I wanted to adjust expectations ASAP.I made them a list that said what was expected of them each day before they could earn screen time or a fun activity. I made it clear that summer wouldn't be a free-for-all with screens, and they would be expected to clean up after themselves.Our summer schedule does include fun, but it also includes choresTheir list includes normal stuff, like getting dressed and brushing their teeth, as well as what I consider everyday chores, like cleaning up after themselves. If they get something out, they must put it away. I also remind them daily that if they keep their rooms clean, it's less to pick up each day. (However, the mantra has yet to sink in.)They are also required to do two additional chores each day. My 9-year-old is in charge of taking out trash, closing the garage door, and carrying laundry baskets. My 7-year-old refills the drink fridge, vacuums, and feeds our pets. Usually, two of these are needed in a day; if not, I make up a quick chore on the fly.Some days, they also work on their reading or math, possibly both. It doesn't have to be a boring worksheet; it can be a game, or sometimes we count change.Then, and only then, can they play video games or watch TV. (Though I have banned YouTube and "YouTube-like shows" from viewing options, because I'm tired of the ridiculous scenarios they think are real.)Other afternoon activities include going to the pool or splash pad, going for a treat, or heading to the park.
