For those of us who don’t like wearing bras, finding one that is aesthetically pleasing and feels like a second skin — while also providing adequate lift and shaping — seems utterly impossible. Which is why I was highly skeptical of the claims that Eby’s sheer bralette could do all three of those things. But after leaving my comfort zone and trying one out, I can confirm that this miraculous bra has all the support of a sports bra but looks like lingerie, and best of all, it feels like you’re wearing nothing at all.

The Eby sheer bralette features a seamless design that is invisible under clothing without compromising on fit. It uses what the brand calls a “matrix of bonding beads” layered between the inner and outer fabrics of the bra to provide effective, pain-free support. The wire-free construction includes mesh panels that keep the bra feeling lightweight and cool, and the larger the cup size, the wider the shoulder strap, providing extra support and additional coverage.

I’ve been in a love-hate relationship with bras since I first started wearing them over 30 years ago. Long gone are the days of my youth when I refused to wear anything but Victoria’s Secret push-up water bras. I now require a bra that is barely perceptible while still doing the heavy lifting (literally) of keeping my postpartum, middle-aged breasts looking perky and feeling comfy. Admittedly, I am relatively small-chested, but according to multitudinous reviews, this bra is just as effective for lifting big boobs as it is for small ones.