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Back in the 1990s, Alan Reeves would regularly perform on stage, stripping off to thousands as a member of The Dreamboys. He was so sought after that he, along with his troupe of male dancers, popped up in the Spice Girls film, Spice World.
The then 24-year-old was, by his own admission, "a bit of a pin up".
But by the time Reeves was in his 30s, he found himself in a very different situation — his mood was low and his libido had virtually disappeared.
"I just didn't feel right," he says.
