Be honest: Is your relationship really working for you?
When journalist Eve Simmons got married to her partner of nine years, she would have said yes.
But just six months later she was blindsided when her husband announced "seemingly out of nowhere" that he wanted a divorce.
"I was totally devastated," she told BBC Woman's Hour. "It felt like the bottom had fallen out of my world". Yet years on, she now sees the split as "the best thing that ever happened".
As she started talking to others about it, she realised that many people had faced similar experiences.
