Almost every parent tells their kid little lies. Stories about Santa and the tooth fairy spark excitement and joy. But not all fibs have a positive effect.
I’m a psychologist who’s spent over 20 years working with parents, and I’ve seen the lies that well-meaning parents occasionally tell. Sometimes, they’re meant to protect a child’s feelings or motivate good behavior.
Other statements — such as the old adage, “time heals all wounds” — are half-truths they heard growing up. When parents repeat them, they may not even realize that what they’re saying is a lie. But they don’t hold up, and they can harm your child’s health, well-being, relationships, and career in the long run.
Fortunately, it’s never too late to share a new message. Here are six common lies parents tell that can hold their kids back from success:
This phrase is often used to encourage children to work hard or pursue their dreams. But these words can backfire.
