Lesson one: Don’t slowly morph into the same person. Keep your own ideas, friends, idiosyncrasies. Your husband isn’t you.

Lesson one: Don’t slowly morph into the same person. Keep your own ideas, friends, idiosyncrasies. Your husband isn’t you.

I can't claim there are many similarities in my and Swift's approach to weddings. But I can claim some skin in the game on what it's like being a newly-wed.