Eight years ago, after yet another disastrous festive get-together, my mother decided we needed professional help. Would thrashing it all out before the big day do the trick?

Eight years ago, after yet another disastrous festive get-together, my mother decided we needed professional help. Would thrashing it all out before the big day do the trick?

From preparing safe topics to taking silly games, we ask the experts how to avoid falling out with your nearest and dearest – before, during and after the big day