"These are all very uncomfortable and heavy issues," attorney Parima Pandkhou says. But for a marriage that lasts, it's important to discuss them early on.

"These are all very uncomfortable and heavy issues," attorney Parima Pandkhou says. But for a marriage that lasts, it's important to discuss them early on.

Make sure you know how much is in all of your mutual accounts, says Parima Pandkhou, divorce attorney at Wasser, Cooperman & Mandles.