I’m having an online affair. I met this woman on a website for people looking for connection. I have no intention of ever meeting her in-person, but we message each other each day, enjoy getting to know each other and are thoughtful towards each other.

My wife and I have been together over 20 years and I love her dearly, but life has become boring and predictable. My online relationship has improved things with my wife; somehow it has bought some excitement back. My wife even said that I seem more enthusiastic lately.

We’ve never met in person and I have never – and will never – so much as kiss this woman. Am I doing anything wrong?

Yours,

CM, age 53