You have too much body fat – and you really need to lose weight. Most doctors are frightened to say those words. We worry about being accused of prejudice, rudeness or fat-shaming.Yet we are perfectly prepared to tell patients that their smoking is dangerous or that their drinking is damaging their health. Why should obesity be treated differently? Silence is not kindness.And we should be having this conversation when someone first becomes overweight, not years later when they are morbidly obese, breathless and already suffering the damaging consequences.But any doctor who says, ‘You must lose weight,’ should immediately add something just as important: ‘Being overweight is not your fault.’The fact is, the food industry has poisoned people with food designed to make them eat more. And doctors have spent decades giving the wrong advice. For this, on our behalf, I apologise.For decades we’ve got obesity wrong. We’ve reduced a complex condition to a smug little equation: calories in minus calories out.If you were overweight, all you needed to do was eat less and move more. If that failed, the implication was that you had failed because you were lazy or lacked willpower.But the truth is that it was the doctors who had failed. For decades we’ve got obesity wrong. We’ve reduced a complex condition to a smug little equation: calories in minus calories out Any doctor who says, ‘You must lose weight,’ should immediately add something just as important: ‘Being overweight is not your fault’, writes Rob GallowayThe equation is technically correct, but utterly useless. It explains neither why it happens nor what we should do about it.But Wegovy has changed everything. The jab – and now the new oral version – contains semaglutide, which mimics GLP-1, a hormone released after eating that tells the brain we are full and slows the emptying of the stomach.I once worried these drugs were simply an easy pharmaceutical shortcut with unknown risks. I now believe they are one of the most important medical advances of recent years.Their success tells us something fundamental: obesity is not a failure of character.Ultra-processed food, with its moreish chemistry and mouth-watering textures, has overwhelmed appetite signals that evolved over thousands of years.Once obesity becomes established, the body fights to return to its highest weight, which is why diets so often fail.Wegovy works because it pushes back against that biology. It does not create willpower – but it does reduce the relentless hunger that doctors had spent years telling patients to simply ignore.The medical establishment’s incorrect understanding of obesity first started to unravel with groundbreaking studies done not by doctors but by an evolutionary anthropologist, Herman Pontzer. Evolutionary anthropologist Herman Pontzer's team studied 30 Hadza hunter-gatherers in northern TanzaniaIn 2012, his team studied 30 Hadza hunter-gatherers in northern Tanzania. Although the Hadza walked miles every day and were far more active than Western adults, they did not burn significantly more calories.The finding suggested that our bodies compensate for sustained activity by reducing energy expenditure elsewhere.Exercise still burns calories, but the increase in total daily expenditure is often much smaller than expected and will eventually plateau. This helps explain why you cannot ‘outrun’ a bad diet.That is not to say that exercise is pointless. Far from it. It is one of the most powerful treatments in medicine, protecting the heart, muscles, bones and brain.Plus, increasing your muscle mass can be one of the most effective ways to maintain weight loss as it raises your basal metabolic rate (BMR), or the number of calories your body needs to perform essential life-sustaining functions, such as breathing, while at rest. This in turn helps you to burn the energy you eat, rather than it becoming extra fat.The second mistake doctors made was treating the human body like a laboratory furnace and pretending every calorie affects us in exactly the same way.The fact is, 200 calories of eggs, beans or chicken will affect our appetite very differently from 200 calories of sugary breakfast cereal.And the latter will leave us wanting more. Research shows that we tend to eat ultra-processed foods faster than our fullness signals can respond to it, making it remarkably easy to eat too much before the brain tells us to stop.By driving us to eat more, ultra-processed food promotes fat accumulation, particularly around the liver and abdominal organs.This makes the body less responsive to insulin, forcing the pancreas to produce more insulin until eventually blood sugar rises and type 2 diabetes develops.Our third mistake when it came to obesity was not realising the importance of when we eat.Humans evolved to eat when food could be hunted, and to fast when it could not.Constant grazing from breakfast until bedtime is a remarkably modern phenomenon and puts us at risk of metabolic illnesses.Fasting has been shown to improve metabolic health and also reduce calorie intake.A 2020 trial by the University of Illinois Chicago found that adults with obesity who restricted eating to a four or six-hour window every day consumed about 550 fewer calories, lost around 3 per cent of their weight in eight weeks and improved their insulin resistance compared with those who were allowed to eat whenever they wanted to.Our fourth mistake was to neglect the importance of sleep.Poor sleep increases hunger, makes junk food harder to resist and leaves more waking hours for eating. It also does something even more harmful: it reduces our cells’ sensitivity to insulin.The body compensates by producing more insulin to control blood sugar, which in turn promotes fat storage.No wonder so many of my NHS colleagues who work night shifts and sleep poorly are troubled by their weight. I was one of them until I drastically changed my diet. Perhaps the medical profession’s biggest mistake was allowing a BMI (body mass index) threshold to become a definition of obesity.BMI is a cheap and useful tool for measuring trends in the population, so we should not abandon it – but it cannot distinguish a muscular, healthy rugby player from someone with the same high BMI but who is unhealthy and carries dangerous amounts of fat.Where that fat sits also matters.Subcutaneous fat lies beneath the skin and is generally less harmful than visceral fat packed around the liver, pancreas and other organs which pumps out toxic compounds linked to heart disease, type 2 diabetes, cancer and dementia.An impedance scale, available online and on the high street, can estimate your percentage of body fat, which can be a far better predictor than your weight for your overall health. Measure your waist too, and aim to keep it below half your height.Finally, medicine must acknowledge how we got here; doctors have been unduly influenced by the food and drug industry.In one analysis, 19 of the 20 members of the US 2020 Dietary Guidelines Committee had documented conflicts of interest involving food or pharmaceutical companies. That fact alone should make us, as a profession, hang our heads in shame.Companies have every right to make a profit. But a business model that engineers food to be addictive and falsely markets it as healthy, while blaming the consumer for over-eating and under-exercising, deserves the sort of scorn once reserved for tobacco companies.So yes, if you are fat, your doctor should be able to tell you so – but they also need to make clear it’s not your fault, and it is now treatable as a preventable condition.@drrobgalloway