The author enjoyed a weekend with her parents, without her son. She got to have a relaxing morning coffee with her father and hear family stories she'd never heard before.

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Family trips, at least for me at this stage in my life, are very kid-centered. We are big multigenerational travelers, but on a recent trip, I left one generation at home. My 9-year-old wasn't happy about this — he loves spending time with his grandparents.The weekend getaway with my parents was the first time in over a decade that I'd traveled anywhere overnight with both of them and without my little one. We didn't go far — just an hour north of San Francisco to Healdsburg — but the experience felt new. We dined at a restaurant with no kids' menu, lingered over Zinfandels and Rhone-style blends, and watched a detective drama in our pajamas.My parents asked what I wanted to do and where I wanted to eat, just like I do with my son. The weekend was a feel-good reminder that I'm still someone's kid, too.

They spent the weekend together in Healdsburg and enjoyed a wine tasting.

Courtesy of Nicole Findlay