Madison Square Garden isn’t where most people picture saying “I do.” Throw in arcade games and a raffle, and it gives off even less of a wedding vibe. But that’s exactly the point.

Those and other unexpected details surfacing from Taylor Swift’s and Travis Kelce’s ultra-private yet attention-grabbing celebration reflect a growing wedding trend: designing a day guests will remember how they felt, not what they saw.

Consider this your invitation to the wedding-experience era.

“We’re seeing a desire to take some of the stiffness and formality out of weddings and bring the fun back,” said Akeshi Akinseye, founder of Kesh Events, a global luxury wedding and event planning and design company.

The arcade games and raffle make much more sense in the context of building an experience-forward wedding, she added. “It introduces anticipation. Guests are not just consuming the event — they’re part of it.”