I once spent forty minutes at eleven at night debugging a deploy that wasn't broken. The release script ran the database migration, the migration threw connection refused, the script exited non-zero, the deploy rolled itself back, and I got paged.
So I did the things you do. I read the migration. I read the logs. I checked the database — it was up, it was healthy, it accepted my connection instantly. I re-ran the deploy and it worked. I chalked it up to gremlins and went to bed, which is the part I'm not proud of, because it happened again two days later. That time I watched the timing: the script brought up a fresh database container and started the migration about six seconds before Postgres finished initializing and began accepting connections. The migration was racing the database's boot. Most of the time it won. The times it lost, I lost forty minutes.
The script wasn't wrong about anything except one assumption: that a dependency is ready the instant you ask for it.
In production, dependencies are eventually ready
That's the mental model shift. Networks blip. A service you call returns a 503 for the two seconds it takes to finish a rolling restart. An API rate-limits you with a 429 it fully expects you to retry. A fresh container's database isn't accepting connections for its first few seconds. Treating the first failure as fatal turns every one of these normal, transient conditions into a paged engineer — and the script that handles them isn't smarter — it declines to give up on the first try.
