Q: My divorce has been dragging on because my ex keeps bringing new motions, making allegations, and refusing to settle issues that seem straightforward. It feels less like they’re trying to resolve the case and more like they’re trying to keep me tied up in court. Can someone get away with using the family court system to control a former spouse?

A: Most people assume that once a relationship ends, family court is there to help both parties resolve their disputes and move forward. While that is certainly the goal of the family justice system, there are situations where one person uses the court process itself as a tool to continue conflict, exert control, or place pressure on a former spouse. This is often referred to as litigation abuse.