June 21, 2026
By Ayo Onikoyi
Nigerian drummer and musician Ara The Drummer has shared her perspective on intimacy, relationships, and personal boundaries, stating that sex goes beyond physical pleasure and involves a deeper level of connection.
Speaking on the Under Her Skin Podcast, Ara said people often underestimate the significance of sexual intimacy and the access it gives another person into their lives.
“Sex is not just enjoyment; it’s literally just putting your life’s plan in somebody’s hands,” she said.
