A family dispute over living arrangements has led the Chief Kadhi to issue a significant ruling clarifying that a Muslim man’s obligations to his wife do not override his duty to care for his parents, and vice versa, stating that where cohabitation between a wife and mother-in-law breaks down, Islamic law requires the husband to provide separate accommodation according to his means.

The decision arose from a case in Mombasa involving a married couple whose relationship deteriorated amid persistent tensions between the wife and her mother-in-law.

Stability

The Chief Kadhi ordered the husband to secure independent accommodation for his wife after she refused to continue living under the same roof as her elderly mother-in-law, citing unbearable conditions.

The woman, identified in court documents as AJN, told the Kadhi’s Court that repeated conflict in the matrimonial home had made it a source of distress rather than stability.