I felt guilty for being exhausted by my kids. I realized that makes me a good dad.
By
Jon Gustin
Jon Gustin is the author of "The Tired Dad."
Courtesy of Joaquin Rodriguez
In an excerpt from "The Tired Dad," Jon Gustin says good parents need rest and shouldn't confuse exhaustion with failure.
I felt guilty for being exhausted by my kids. I realized that makes me a good dad.
By
Jon Gustin
Jon Gustin is the author of "The Tired Dad."
Courtesy of Joaquin Rodriguez

I never used to believe the myth of the toddler tyrant. That was, until I became a tired parent.

"I quickly learned that not only would my kids be fine if I didn’t accommodate their every whim, but they’d be more independent…

My current state is “burned out with occasional rage.”

As a laissez-faire mama who didn’t enforce music and Mandarin lessons, I feel guilty for not being the ideal model of nurture

“I noticed similarities not just between my boys, but between them and me.”

“It hit me. The reason I was raging.”