The singer said the couple's 2024 split mad her realize there was "nobody to blame except yourself."

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez at the premiere of "The Mother" held at Regency Village Theatre on May 10, 2023 in Los Angeles, California.

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Following her well-publicized 2024 divorce from Ben Affleck, Jennifer Lopez did what a lot of people do when the relationship they poured so much of themselves into melts down: she took inventory of her life, her choices and her intentions.

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