A reader (not pictured) asked For Love & Money what they can do to feel they can afford the life they've dreamed of.
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Dear For Love & Money,I'm 25 years old and live in the Netherlands. I spent 15 years trying to leave my home country for a better future and move to Europe. I thought I would be better off here, have a higher standard of living, and be able to go on holiday.I worked and saved up whatever I could to make my dream come true. I made it to Europe 1½ years ago, and I'm working in tech sales, an industry that pays well even in a junior position; I make 67,000 Euros a year, but after rent, food, and bills, there's not much left.I see people my age going on holidays, wasting money on drinks, skiing in the winter, and partying in Ibiza during the summer. I feel worthless, like all of the effort I put in to be here means nothing. I still can't afford a holiday or to travel anywhere. It feels like I moved forward three steps, only for the world to take 10 steps backward.I want to be young, to meet women my age, and to be able to go on dates. I want to spend money on things, and not be scared to wear the one piece of clothing I bought because I can't afford to buy it again if it gets ruined. What can I do?Sincerely,Disappointed Dreamer
