Jane Lynch may be a Hollywood mainstay today, but the Glee star had no career plan after college and didn’t even land her breakout role as fiery cheerleading coach Sue Sylvester until the age of 49. And it’s proof, she told Gen Z, that you don’t need to have it all figured out in your 20s.

“What I’ve learned is that life itself has a much bigger and better imagination than we do,” Lynch told students at her alma mater, Cornell University, late last month. “The best things that ever happened to me, without exception, are things I could never have planned, would have never had the audacity to put on a list.”

It’s a lesson that took Lynch years to learn.

After arriving at Cornell in the 1980s to pursue a master’s degree in fine arts, Lynch admitted she felt deeply uncertain about what came next. She said she didn’t fit the traditional mold of an Ivy Leaguer, describing herself as someone “fresh from the corn fields of Central Illinois.” During one discussion about life after graduation, she recalled classmates asking each other where they envisioned themselves in the future.

“When it was my turn, I said, ‘I don’t see myself anywhere, doing anything, because I am paralyzed with fear,’” Lynch said. “And there was silence, and I realized that I had said the quiet part out loud. I went into a fugue state for the rest of that semester.”