Dame Mary Berry has shared profound reflections on the enduring memory of her late son, William, describing how she and her family feel "so lucky" to have had him and the "wonderful life" he brought them. Her comments come shortly after she paid a poignant tribute to William at the Bafta Television Awards last month.The beloved television cook and former Great British Bake Off judge, 91, experienced the tragic loss of her youngest son in a car accident in 1989 when he was just 19 years old.Speaking candidly on Fearne Cotton’s Happy Place podcast, Dame Mary revealed that "keeping busy" was instrumental in navigating her grief. She emphasised that William remains an integral part of their family life, stating, "he is still part of our lives."Dame Mary Berry with the Fellowship Award in the winners room at the BAFTA TV Awards 2026 (PA)Recalling the immediate aftermath of his death, she explained: "When we lost William, our son, I didn’t really want to go to London to work again. I wanted to stay with my husband." To cope, Dame Mary began teaching cooking classes from her home, utilising her Aga cooker. She told Cotton: "It kept me busy, and I had my husband and other children about me."Reflecting on the nature of grief, she added: "(With grief), it’s time. I think the one thing we all told ourselves was how lucky we were to have had William, and what a wonderful life he’d given us."More than three decades on, William's presence is still deeply felt. "It’s many years now, it’s 30 years since he died. Every Christmas, we’re still saying we’re having a drink to Will," she shared. Watch Apple TV+ free for 7 dayNew subscribers only. £9.99/mo. after free trial. Plan auto-renews until cancelled.Try for freeADVERTISEMENT. If you sign up to this service we will earn commission. This revenue helps to fund journalism across The Independent.Watch Apple TV+ free for 7 dayNew subscribers only. £9.99/mo. after free trial. Plan auto-renews until cancelled.Try for freeADVERTISEMENT. If you sign up to this service we will earn commission. This revenue helps to fund journalism across The Independent.Even her grandchildren, who never met him, know his story. "Our grandchildren all say he was very good at sport. (My grandson Hobie Bosher) was saying, when he was doing so well at rugby, ‘William would have been proud of me, wouldn’t he?’"Dame Mary noted the comfort in keeping his memory alive: "It’s really nice, and there are pictures of him all around, and even though the grandchildren didn’t know him, they know all about him. But some people don’t want to do that, they want to forget it and have a new life, but he is still part of our lives."‘I think the one thing we all told ourselves was how lucky we were to have had William’ (PA Archive)She also offered advice on supporting those in mourning. "I loved it if people came up to me and said, ‘Oh, Will was such a smashing chap, wasn’t he a good tennis player’ or whatever, and I’m proud," she said. "I think if one can, if there is a sadness in the family, to find something nice to say about them, or something we remember about them, helps people pass the time."Earlier this month, at the Bafta Television awards held at the Royal Festival Hall on May 10, Dame Mary received the prestigious fellowship prize for her six-decade contribution to television. During her acceptance speech, she movingly thanked her husband and children, concluding with a heartfelt dedication: "William is in heaven, but I thank him."Speaking to Cotton about the honour, Dame Mary expressed her disbelief, saying, "I can’t really believe it." She added a touching thought: "One thing that does cross your mind, is you wish your mother and father were here. I know they’re looking down (on me), but the first thing you would normally do is pick up the phone like, ‘mum!’" She confirmed her husband and children were "very pleased" with the recognition.