I've never been one to take pictures of myself, but I decided to step outside my comfort zone and book a solo photo shoot.
Rachel Calvo
I've never liked having my picture taken.I don't consider myself photogenic, and when I do try to pose for a photograph, I end up feeling self-conscious and awkward — giving less model face and more Chandler Bing's engagement shoot.Still, I've always enjoyed seeing the creative photos of travelers dressed in fancy outfits and posing in eye-catching locales. One style that grabbed my attention is the "flying-dress" shoot.If you've been anywhere near social media in the past decade, you've probably seen the viral images of influencers in brightly colored silken dresses with long billowing trains that "fly" — as the name implies — in the wind.Recently, I had a couple of free days in Paris after a work-related trip. I realized that, although I've traveled the world, I have very few pictures of myself in distant destinations to show for it.It's only been in the last few years, as I've entered my mid-50s, that I've been able to let go of the excuses that I'm too old or not pretty enough.I decided that I deserve to have some glamorous photos of myself.
I found the perfect photographer for my shootA Google search for "Paris photographer" led me to hundreds of options, ranging from individual shutterbugs to large studios with multiple artists.Their prices varied from about $100 for an hourlong shoot to thousands of dollars for experiences that included hair and makeup, videographers, wardrobes, and even chauffeured transportation.I reviewed dozens of portfolios, but couldn't find the right fit. Then, I came across Rachel Calvo, who specializes in on-location portrait photography of women.Her photos, many in black and white, emphasized a sophisticated simplicity — nothing too sexy or too young and trendy, and no excessive use of over-the-top props.The only thing holding me back from immediately booking, aside from my long-standing camera phobia, was the thought of having to pack additional outfits, especially the voluminous skirts or dresses I had envisioned for my photos.Calvo, however, offered a VIP Package for 695 euros, or about $800, that would include access to a studio wardrobe filled with evening gowns, party dresses, and fun accessories.Then I saw it: the flowing red train of a flying dress. I was sold.The experience was even more fun than I expected










