May 27, 2026

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Dear Bunmi, I have a strange problem because, in fact, it isn’t really a problem yet.

I’m getting married in the New Year. It is the first marriage for both of us though we’re in our 30s.

The reason why I’m apprehensive is that a lot of our friends who got married have already split up and I’m scared stiff I’m going to let my future wife down by not making her happy.