For many families, depression in older adults is often missed because it doesn’t always look like sadness.

There’s a moment many families know too well. A parent or grandparent who once loved gardening suddenly stops going outside. An aunt who never misses a family gathering starts saying she’s “just tired". A grandfather becomes unusually irritable, withdrawn, or forgetful, and everyone quietly assumes it’s “just old age".

And according to health experts, depression in older adults is often missed because it doesn’t always look like sadness.

The World Health Organization estimates that around 5.7% of adults over 60 experience depression, slightly higher than the general adult population. Yet many seniors never get diagnosed because the symptoms can hide behind physical pain, fatigue, memory issues, or even personality changes.

Depression in seniors can look less like crying and more like slowly disappearing from themselves.