The fiancée and religious mother of a rail worker who took his own life are locked in a High Court battle over whether he should be cremated or buried. Transport for London employee Simon Comerford, 36, died by suicide in February around a year after receiving the devastating news he had testicular cancer. A short time later, his partner Toni Cameron began making arrangements for a funeral – deciding that Mr Comerford would have wanted to be cremated given the violent nature of his death. But Ms Cameron has become embroiled in a bitter battle with her partner's mother, Maria Comerford, who insists he should be buried rather than cremated. The parent says that as a Roman Catholic she has a 'strong preference for burial over cremation' and that the prospect of burning Mr Comerford's remains has triggered her deep-rooted phobia of fire. Ms Cameron, however, argues that her fiancé had been 'estranged' from his parents for years and he had made it clear he didn't want them in his life, a sentiment which she says should extend to his funeral arrangements.She has now gone to the High Court seeking a judge's ruling that would allow the body to be released to her so she can take charge of funeral arrangements. Ms Cameron – who is planning to have Mr Comerford's children by IVF having previously gained his consent to use his sperm after death – wants his ashes interred at her family plot at the Islington and St Pancras Cemetery. Simon Comerford died aged 36 in February – and now the rail worker's fiancée Toni Cameron (pictured) is locked in a bitter court dispute with his mother over whether he should be buried or cremated Maria Comerford (pictured), the mother, says that as a Roman Catholic she has a 'strong preference for burial over cremation'The court heard both women agree that the funeral service can take place at St John the Evangelist Church, in Islington, which is attached to the primary school attended by both Mr Comerford and his partner. But friction between the pair cranked up in the month after the rail worker's death when Ms Cameron took steps to organise his funeral, Judge Master Karen Shuman was told.The conflict came to a head during a 'heated' phone conversation, before Mrs Comerford texted her son's fiancée 'in terms which she accepts were upsetting and regrettable'.Ms Cameron instructed solicitors less than a week later to send letters to Mrs Comerford and her husband, the deceased's dad John Comerford.The mother responded by insisting that Ms Cameron had no legal right to organise the funeral as she was not his next of kin, despite accepting that she could organise certain aspects of the service.Ms Cameron's barrister Jamie Cockfield said the deceased had been estranged from his parents 'for at least 10 years' despite living nearby at the flat he shared with her in Archway, north London.'Simon’s wishes were also clearly that his parents should have no involvement in his life, this is demonstrated by the 10 to 15 years of estrangement,' he continued.'This wish should extend to his death and Maria should not be involved in making decisions about his funeral, burial or cremation.'In her written evidence, Ms Cameron noted: 'Simon would be distraught and would not want Mrs Comerford to arrange his funeral and/or burial and cremation.'He would not want them to have anything to do with it.'Her barrister continued: 'It is not an estrangement due to practicality or distance, but out of choice,' adding that Ms Cameron and Mr Comerford had by contrast been in a 'loving, committed relationship' since 2011.The pair had become engaged in July 2023 and they planned to have children together, with Mr Comerford 'giving consent for her to use his sperm after his death' a month after his cancer diagnosis.'She intends to continue their IVF journey and hopes to have Simon’s children,' said Mr Cockfield, noting that all the available evidence suggested he had been 'ambivalent' about the issue of cremation or burial.'When returning from a spa weekend at Hoar Cross Manor on 2 February 2026, Toni and Simon had a conversation in which they discussed burial or cremation after death,' said her barrister.But because of the violent circumstances of his death and the state of his body, Ms Cameron – as his closest confidante – is convinced he would have preferred cremation.'She formed this belief because she knew Simon very well and believes he would not have wanted his body to remain in its current condition,' continued Mr Cockfield. 'In the circumstances, she is the best person to assess what Simon would have wanted.'Ms Cameron's barrister also questioned the mother’s motivation for opposing her wishes, suggesting that 'she is at least partly motivated by animosity'.He cited several highly charged texts sent by Mrs Comerford after her son’s death, one of which began: 'Who the heck do you actually think you are?'But in court, Mrs Comerford brushed aside any suggestion of spite on her part towards her son's fiancée, stating: 'Absolutely not – I don’t even know her'.She added that her opposition is 'in strong part religious in origin' and is based on the Roman Catholic 'strong preference for burial over cremation'. Mrs Comerford also has a deep-rooted 'fear of fire' dating back many years, which makes cremation distasteful for her, said the barrister.'This is rooted in the death of her grandfather, who died in a fire,' explained Brie Stevens-Hoare KC. 'A burial will help her grieve in a way a cremation would not,' she added.She accepted evidence about Mr Comerford’s 'ambivalence' towards burial or cremation, but argued that there were signs that he 'saw graves as important'. For instance, the fact he had commissioned the erection of a Celtic cross to mark his grandfather's grave.The judge has now reserved her ruling in the case.Key factors she must consider when deciding whether to order burial or cremation are Mr Comerford's wishes, the 'reasonable wishes' of his family and friends, and crucially that 'the body be disposed of with all proper respect and decency and – if possible – without further delay,' the judge noted.