I’ve traveled on cruises all over the world, from Alaska to the Caribbean and soon through the Greek isles.

My personal preference is for a ship with an adults-only atmosphere, creative onboard entertainment, and no-buffet, no-kids policy that gives the whole experience a cooler, more curated feel – whether you’re lounging on the pool deck with a cocktail, grabbing ramen at 2 a.m., or dancing under the stars.

But even the most relaxed ships have unspoken rules: Don’t hog the loungers, don’t bring your speaker to the hot tub, and yes, your cabin neighbor can hear everything. Packing the right gear – like magnetic hooks or wrinkle release spray – can help you stay comfortable, organized, and respectful of those around you.

Here’s everything I recommend first-time cruisers bring aboard to make the most of their trip, without stepping on any toes.

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