Audrey thinks Noah doesn’t take bathing seriously enough. He says he’s a ‘quick-shower kind of guy’ but keeps himself clean. You decide whose argument scrubs up best

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Noah doesn’t wash himself thoroughly enough – he just rubs a bit of gel around his body

My boyfriend, Noah, doesn’t wash properly, but he thinks he does. I am Nigerian and grew up being told I must scrub my body thoroughly when I wash, otherwise I’m not clean. My sisters and I were encouraged to use exfoliating net sponges and proper soap to clean ourselves. Shower gel was banned in my house.

Noah, meanwhile, has a much more lax approach to hygiene. He doesn’t use soap, and will just pat a bit of shower gel around his body. We’ve been in a relationship for three years, but I first started noticing it nine months ago after we moved in together.