Bella says choosing outfits for Axel is her way of showing she cares. He wants to dress as he pleases and wonders if she’s trying to change him. You decide who the fashion victim is

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When Axel doesn’t wear something I’ve given him, I feel hurt. Buying gifts is my way of showing I care

I really enjoy buying things for my boyfriend, Axel. It’s about love; I get excited whenever I see something that reminds me of him. I like to buy him clothes in particular – I think it gives him a little confidence boost. Even though I already like his sense of style, it’s my way of showing I care.

I earn more money than him, so it’s not a big deal to get him gifts. I know not everyone expresses love through presents, but if I can afford it, why not? But when he doesn’t wear something I’ve given him, especially after I’ve put thought into it, I feel hurt.